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YOU are in control! YOU are responsible!
By Noel Peebles
http://www.marketleadersltd.com
Do
you ever think to yourself, "I can't do that?" Most likely, it is your
present beliefs that may be causing you to doubt your own abilities. After
all, the only thing that can ever stop you from doing or getting
anything is a thought.
· I'd better not try that.
· I don't
have a chance to win this one.
· They'd probably turn me down
anyway.
· I can't see it working.
· I doubt she'd go out with
me.
· What if I call him and he says no?
I could list
thousands of these tension building and confidence destroying instructions.
Many of us wash these types of negative instructions through our brains
every day. It's no wonder we are afraid to try new things.
We always
lose when we expect to. Which is why we did. It's self-fulfilling. Expect
failure and get failure. Which in turn breeds more expectation of failure.
If you want to change your situation and the results you are
currently getting - you first have to change your beliefs. This means
changing your mental conditioning to get the results you want.
If
you set yourself up to expect success - you will achieve more success - and
so breeding more expectations of success. It starts by telling ourselves
that we can do it. It is about making things work rather than focusing
on what we can't do and telling ourselves we can't. The basic concept is
really that simple, but
extremely powerful.
Not all your results will
change instantly, but some will. I mean, it's not like a million dollars
is going to appear out of thin air. But, if you really do want a million
dollars, you can have it.
However, firstly you have to believe that it is
possible.
It is a bit like a farmer planting seeds; he doesn't
expect the crop to pop out of the ground the instant he waters it. He
expects to nurture it and work at making his crop a reality. Nor does a
woman who conceives a baby expect it to be born immediately
(thank
goodness for that), without some sacrifice or effort.
The point I'm
making is that you have complete control over your results (except for
unforeseen natural disasters). You have complete control over your future
and you have complete control over your mind.
Another thing I have
discovered from my years in business; is that in order have complete control
over your mind, you first have to take full responsibility for the
results you get in life.
When something happens to you, take full
responsibility.
The problem is this. It is easy to blame any and
everyone, or everything else for our plight in life.
It's
circumstances beyond my control. Oh Really?
It's the government's
fault. Oh Really??
The economy is to
blame. Oh Really???
It's the boss's
fault. Oh Really????
It's everyone else's
fault. Oh Really?????
Don't depend on events outside
of you to provide the happiness in your life. Get over blaming the world
around you. Get over guilt. Get over resentment. Concentrate on getting
your act together. Take control and take full responsibility.
THINK
BETTER! ...ACT BETTER! ...FEEL BETTER!
Every day is a new day. Don't let
the past control the future. Forgive others and forgive yourself for
whatever may have happened in the past. Get over it... it's done with...
let go. Think about the present and focus on the future.
Tomorrow
is the first day of the rest of your life. YOU are in control. YOU are
responsible.
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